These cruel new plans to ‘stop the boats’ show the government completely misunderstands refugees like me

I am a refugee and I am in shock at the home secretary’s announcement that people like me will now have to wait up to 30 years before they can apply for settlement in the UK – a sixfold increase on the current time period. It feels like a pile-on at a time when asylum seekers and refugees are already facing a barrage of hostility in this country. Even before the announcement, refugees felt under siege. With the withdrawal of the right to ever become citizens for those of us who have “made a dangerous journey” and with frequent reviews of our refugee status to check if we are still deserving enough of protection or if we should be deported, our security in the UK is more vulnerable than ever.

According to the new rules, particular restrictions will be reserved for refugees who arrive in the UK on small boats or by other clandestine means such as in freight lorries. This is a punishment for fleeing war and using the only option open to us to reach a safe country. The government talks a lot about how asylum seekers will be treated differently if they arrive by safe and legal routes. The problem is that almost none exist: the largest scheme, refugee family reunion – which allowed about 20,000 women, children and other eligible dependents to join recognised refugees in the UK – has been suspended for more than a year.

The government has promoted other refugee resettlement schemes , such as one which will include Palestinians and Afghan women and girls, and another where refugees are supported and sponsored by individual communities. However, as well as only supporting small numbers of people, both have restrictions and limited scope, leaving those desperately trying to escape conflict zones with a binary choice: stay put or use an illegal method to reach safety.

Shutting the most vulnerable refugees out of settled status for 30 years places us in a state of limbo that will only deepen the trauma of fleeing our home country. This will cause refugees to disengage with the state, which will force more of us underground, working illegally for very low wages, and make us more vulnerable to exploitation. If more of us start to live under the radar, the government will ultimately have less rather than more control over irregular migration.

This will also only hinder integration. It’s much harder to feel we belong in society if we’re shut out of settlement – even if we have a legal right to live here. I arrived in the UK in 2017 after fleeing Syria. I protested against the Assad regime during the Arab spring and Syria’s civil war, and was twice imprisoned. When I was almost killed in a deadly missile attack in a suburb of Aleppo in 2017, I fled first to Turkey and then arrived in Calais in France and went on to the UK, where I joined my aunt, who raised me after my mother died.

At that time I felt somewhat welcome in this country. In the almost decade since then, so much has changed. skip past newsletter promotion Free newsletter | Weekly Sign up to Matters of Opinion Guardian columnists and writers on what they’ve been debating, thinking about, reading, and more Enter your email Sign up after newsletter promotion How will UK immigration rules change under Shabana Mahmood’s latest plans? Read more Refugees are now increasingly scapegoated.

The vast majority of us are law abiding. But because some corners of society encourage racism and anger towards us, many politicians are now scared to speak up for us. Like many other refugees, I have worked hard to integrate, to speak English well and to do voluntary work to help the community alongside my day job. But it seems that none of these things count in the political calculations the government has made. If the government thinks that imposing a bar of up to 30 years on refugee settlement will stop the boats , it has fundamentally misunderstood refugees and the life calculations we make.

The life of a refugee is filled with uncertainty – we are unable to make long-term plans, and instead move from one stepping stone to the next in the search for safety and security. We dream of a time when it will be safe to return to our home country but know that in reality this might never be possible. While our priority is to find a safe place to live, the exact time we have to wait before we are granted settlement – whether it’s five years, 30 years or more – is not uppermost in our mind when we step into a dinghy on the coast of northern France.

So the 30-year restriction is immoral, but it is also profoundly arrogant in attempting to sway the mind of a refugee. As long as people remain desperate to flee violent conflict, and without a proper investment in safe routes, the boats will continue to arrive. As told to Diane Taylor Do you have an opinion on the issues raised in this article? If you would like to submit a response of up to 300 words by email to be considered for publication in our letters section, please click here .

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