Ruby Rippey Details 2005 Affair With Gavin Newsom in Vanity Fair Essay
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Ruby Rippey Details 2005 Affair With Gavin Newsom in Vanity Fair Essay

29 July, 2026.USA.27 sources

Ruby Rippey details a 2005-06 affair with Gavin Newsom while he was SF mayor. She was married to Newsom's top adviser Alex Tourk during the affair.

27 outlets2 divides3 facts unevenly coveredseverity 4/10

Beat 1 · The verdict

SFGATE frames Rippey as not explaining her timing; NBC Bay Area cites her reason.

Beat 3 · What got skipped

4 Other or Local Western outlets never mentioned: Rippey says she now understands power and agency via sobriety.

SFGATE · SFist · Patch · San Francisco Chronicle

4 Other or Local Western outlets never mentioned: Newsweek says Kamala Harris urged Rippey to stay silent.

SFGATE · SFist · Patch · San Francisco Chronicle

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Rippey essay revives scandal

Ruby Rippey, a former appointments secretary to Gavin Newsom when he was mayor of San Francisco, published a first-person essay in Vanity Fair describing an affair that began in July 2005 and continued for months before she entered rehab in May 2006.

Rippey, 54, has spoken previously about her relationship with the now-governor

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The Los Angeles Times says Rippey, 54, wrote that she and Newsom met at his penthouse in San Francisco’s Russian Hill neighborhood, at a private back room in a bar in North Beach, and at the W Hotel in Los Angeles.

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The San Francisco Chronicle reports that in Newsom’s memoir, he wrote, "It was the stupidest and also briefest of affairs," and that he said he came clean to Hilary and to Alex Tourk.

Rippey’s account, as described by the San Francisco Chronicle, also disputes how Newsom characterized the affair, including her claim that Newsom’s version leaves "the unmistakable impression that he, not I, was the one who told Alex the truth."

Apology, power, and Harris

Newsom’s office response, as quoted by the San Francisco Chronicle, came through spokesperson Izzy Gardon, who said the governor "publicly apologized nearly two decades ago when he was still mayor."

The Los Angeles Times also quotes Gardon saying Newsom "does not have anything further to add," while the essay and memoir debate centers on who told Alex Tourk and how the relationship is framed.

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Rippey’s writing, as quoted by SFist, argues that "Power does not need to coerce. It only needs to exist," and that "The responsibility to hold the line belongs to the one who holds it."

The Times of India reports that Rippey recalled Kamala Harris advising her to wait, quoting Harris as saying, "I wouldn’t say anything right now, Ruby. Just pause. More time will give you better perspective."

What’s at stake now

The Guardian frames the renewed attention around Newsom’s political trajectory, saying the essay is likely to rekindle interest in the scandal ahead of his widely expected run for the White House in 2028.

ahead of his widely expected run for the White House in 2028

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The Los Angeles Times notes that the essay arrives as Newsom is wrapping up his final year as California governor and considering a presidential run in 2028, while it also says the affair faced renewed criticism during the 2018 governor’s race.

Rippey’s account, as described by the San Francisco Chronicle, says both she and Newsom were fueled by alcohol and that they take responsibility and are "deeply sorry for hurting Tourk," while the dispute over the memoir’s details remains central to her critique.

NBC Bay Area adds that the Vanity Fair piece comes as Newsom considers plans to run for president of the United States, with Rippey’s story tying the affair to her yearslong battle with alcoholism and her account of how it ultimately ended.

Story read · 27 outlets · 2 disagreements · 3 facts unevenly covered

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How each outlet frames it

Every outlet we compared, the headline it ran, and a link to the original article.

Western Mainstream

CNN
CNN

Ruby Rippey, a former Newsom staffer, offers new details on their affair two decades ago

28 July, 2026

Forbes
Forbes

Kamala Harris Gave Ruby Rippey The 'Best Advice' After Newsom Affair, She Says In New Tell-All

28 July, 2026

Los Angeles Times
Los Angeles Times

Aide involved in affair with Gavin Newsom in 2005 speaks out: 'Resentment is a luxury I can’t afford'

28 July, 2026

NBC Bay Area
NBC Bay Area

Woman details past affair with Gavin Newsom

29 July, 2026

New York Post
New York Post

Gavin Newsom responds to Ruby Rippey’s claims after ex-mistress writes new tell-all essay

28 July, 2026

New York Post
New York Post

Ruby Rippey breaks cover after salacious essay exposed Gavin Newsom affair details

29 July, 2026

Newsweek
Newsweek

Gavin Newsom's ex-girlfriend describes affair in detail: bombshell essay

28 July, 2026

People
People

Ruby Rippey Breaks Silence on Gavin Newsom Affair and How Kamala Harris Helped Her Survive Fallout

28 July, 2026

The Guardian
The Guardian

Former Gavin Newsom aide shares fresh details of affair

28 July, 2026

The Hill
The Hill

Former aide shares details of decades-old affair with Newsom in Vanity Fair essay

28 July, 2026

The Independent
The Independent

Aide who had affair with Gavin Newsom — while married to his campaign manager — breaks her silence

28 July, 2026

The Independent
The Independent

Ex-Gavin Newsom aide breaks decades-long silence about California gov cuckolding his own campaign manager — with her

29 July, 2026

The Telegraph
The Telegraph

Kamala Harris told me to keep quiet about my affair with Gavin Newsom, says staffer Ruby Rippey

28 July, 2026

Local Western

MS NOW
MS NOW

Ex-aide who had affair with Newsom reflects on power imbalance in new essay

28 July, 2026

Patch
Patch

Former Aide Breaks Silence About Affair With Gavin Newsom: Report

28 July, 2026

Sacramento Bee
Sacramento Bee

Ruby Rippey reveals new, contradicting details of Newsom affair in Vanity Fair

28 July, 2026

San Francisco Chronicle
San Francisco Chronicle

Aide who had an affair with Gavin Newsom shares her account of what happened

28 July, 2026

SecretNews
SecretNews

The Five Most Shocking Revelations from Gavin Newsom’s Ex-Girlfriend's Essay

29 July, 2026

Watson
Watson

The former mistress of this influential politician spills it all.

29 July, 2026

WPEC
WPEC

Former Gavin Newsom staffer goes into detail about affair when he was San Francisco mayor

29 July, 2026

Western Tabloid

RadarOnline
RadarOnline

Gavin Newsom's Ex-Mistress Shares X-Rated Details About Steamy Affair

28 July, 2026

TMZ
TMZ

Gavin Newsom's Ex-Lover Details How Affair Unfolded, Claims Kamala Gave Her Advice

28 July, 2026

Vanity Fair
Vanity Fair

How I Blew Up My Life. (Or, the Gavin Newsom Affair)

28 July, 2026

Other

SFGATE
SFGATE

Newsom affair with friend's wife resurfaces amid presidential run rumors

28 July, 2026

SFist
SFist

Former Newsom Mayoral Aide Ruby Rippey Breaks Silence on Scandalous 2005 Affair

28 July, 2026

UCV Radio
UCV Radio

Gavin Newsom's former mistress says Kamala Harris encouraged her to cover up the affair.

28 July, 2026

Asian

The Times of India
The Times of India

Gavin Newsom's former aide Ruby Rippey breaks silence on 2007 affair; Kamala Harris advised her to stay s

29 July, 2026

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